dointhingsright
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should i say it to my girlfriend or would that kill the relationship.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i love you....
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Never say you love a girl until they say it first.
Originally posted by The Bishop
Never say you love a girl until they say it first.
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Never say never...
It's not like when you say "I love you", the relationships over. Well, the challenge and mystery might be over though.
But it depends on the situation. If you think you should say it, SAY IT.
It's not like when you say "I love you", the relationships over. Well, the challenge and mystery might be over though.
But it depends on the situation. If you think you should say it, SAY IT.
Smooth as Anything
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Here's the question:
Do you love her?
Do you love her?
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cutting and to the point. but i think you need to answer!Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
Here's the question:
Do you love her?
dointhingsright
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well its one of those things that im not sure. im put into the position where i might have to. i go out with alot of girls and all the girls in my high school know that. i feel that i have to say something like this to show her that she is different than alot of the girls i have been with but at the same time i dont want to "kill" my game and have her look at me as if i were some sort of afc. im not sure on what to do here.
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Ok...now answer my question:Originally posted by dointhingsright
well its one of those things that im not sure. im put into the position where i might have to. i go out with alot of girls and all the girls in my high school know that. i feel that i have to say something like this to show her that she is different than alot of the girls i have been with but at the same time i dont want to "kill" my game and have her look at me as if i were some sort of afc. im not sure on what to do here.
Do you love her? If its yes, tell her you love her. If it no, do not tell her you love her.
Be a ****ing man.
SnatchJP
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Tell her just that, that there's something different about her. much more intriguing than 'I love you'. I would say it more bemusedly/mysteriously than romantically (save the romantic part for the actual I love you). But you can do it how you want.Originally posted by dointhingsright
well its one of those things that im not sure. im put into the position where i might have to. i go out with alot of girls and all the girls in my high school know that. i feel that i have to say something like this to show her that she is different than alot of the girls i have been with ....
I've never been in love, but everyone I know who has says that when you're really in love, you know it. If there's any question in your mind, you're probably not in love yet. (Not that you'll never fall in love with this girl, it just doesn't look like its happened yet.)
Hope this helped
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dont tell her unless she says it first like whats his name said... and telling her instead that there is something special about her is definitely good idea... but dont turn afc on me and try to prove to her that shes special... just say it and pull away a lil bit... she will be real confused and make her think about u all day long