I love you

[SmooveMooves]

How long do you guys typically wait to say this to a woman when in a LTR?

 

[Tictac]

Usually after she does.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

after a nice bj

 

[Fireballs]

In my last LTR she said it to me 4 months in and I said it back then.

 

[Desdinova]

Rule of thumb is usually after she says it. After that, I make sure I don't respond back with it each and every time, but I'll occasionally initiate it. Keeping it a bit unpredictable keeps it exciting for her.

 

[GS750]

I'm with the others...after she says it first. Never before.

 

[MrWood]

never before.
I have noticed that you can say/respond to her without saying it directly, and doesnt seem to loose your frame:
"I love the way you do/say it/thing"
"I would really love it if you/we did/do thing"

 

[old_skoolr]

When you feel like you should.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Lol I've said it to chicks I wasn't even with. Like they give me a bag of chips and I'm just like "holy ****, I love you". I'd expect an "I know" or something but they actually say "I love you too" haha and then I dunno what to think aside from chomping on my chips. All is acceptable given the context of the situation I suppose.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Never

 

[RangerMIke]

Never

This. I NEVER tell a woman that I love them. I show them. She can judge me by my actions. When she says "I love you.", I just tell her to "Get over here and prove it.", or "Show me how much."

If you find yourself in a 'relationship', where a woman gets ticked off with you for not parroting back "I love you." like a trained monkey, dump her. If she can't see by your actions how you feel about her then she will not be happy in a relationship.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

+1. "I love you" is poison. You drop those words and the entire power dynamic changes, or at least she believes it does. She can also throw them in your face any time she is cross or wants something. "But you said you loved me...". "If you loved me you would....". When a woman tells me she loves me I either say 'thanks' or 'I know'.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

This. I NEVER tell a woman that I love them. I show them. She can judge me by my actions. When she says "I love you.", I just tell her to "Get over here and prove it.", or "Show me how much."

If you find yourself in a 'relationship', where a woman gets ticked off with you for not parroting back "I love you." like a trained monkey, dump her. If she can't see by your actions how you feel about her then she will not be happy in a relationship.

**** man, "Get over here and prove it"...I will remember this.

 

[RangerMIke]

**** man, "Get over here and prove it"...I will remember this.

You have to act like you really liked hearing what she said, and say this with a smile on you face. Works well... but you can't be a @ss.