"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sometimes you just have to let them know FF981CAD-4D31-4AD5-B468-BABFC372BFED.jpeg
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In just the little small pic of her on the conversation, I agree I think she looks like a guy.
 

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Tinder is for cowards who do not approach. Wait wit?
Calling out other dudes who WILL post their interactions yet you shout all day long about your 'perfect tactics' to pick up/interact with women but have NEVER produced a field report....?

Who's the coward?:rolleyes:

Wait wut??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Calling out other dudes who WILL post their interactions yet you shout all day long about your 'perfect tactics' to pick up/interact with women but have NEVER produced a field report....?

Who's the coward?:rolleyes:

Wait wut??
Not only do I post proof, walk the walk and talk the talk. Any guy who comes to Miami is welcome to come with me and get embarrassed in the field by how many hot women I will pull and close on. Enough said
 

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The regulars should post proof, it's not for self promotion nor for any ego boost but do it for those who come here seeking valid advice from those who r really being able to pull using their own techniques.

Other guys can learn from real life experiences.

Watching and reading pick up lines, ideologies, etc from YouTube or some other blog then reposting it here ain't enough.
 

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Tinder is for cowards who do not approach. Wait wit?
I don't agree with this. I think Tinder and online dating in general is good practice for any man as long as his mindset is in the right place about it. But if he goes on there thinking he is going to find his next wife or GF then that's not the right mindset. I think doing the online thing will build confidence with women, help a guy learn their true nature, etc. So then a guy can be better at approaches in real life.

As for me personally, I would say of all the women in my life I have dated, banged, etc. it's about 60% real life meets and 40% online meets. Hands down I can tell you that the better quality of women I have met of those two groups has been the ones I originally met in real life. My case specifically.
 

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I don't agree with this. I think Tinder and online dating in general is good practice for any man as long as his mindset is in the right place about it. But if he goes on there thinking he is going to find his next wife or GF then that's not the right mindset. I think doing the online thing will build confidence with women, help a guy learn their true nature, etc. So then a guy can be better at approaches in real life
Most men be it here or on other pickup forums cannot approach. Are delusional in believing online is game. Its passive dating. Assuming moving one's thumb is game is beyond retarded.

RooshV just called out cucks on tinder in podcast #20. "Don't use it. Problem solved" was his two cents.

This coming from a guy in game for 17+ yrs.

I am around ten total in between life, relations, and before believing in monogamy once upon a time then versus now, 7yrs consistency alternatively.

IRL > online all day!

Online is begging for cucking.

Again, my **** won't suck itself. Swipe right @ life but, putting in work, chain gunning cold approach is GOAT status.

As for me personally, I would say of all the women in my life I have dated, banged, etc. it's about 60% real life meets and 40% online meets. Hands down I can tell you that the better quality of women I have met of those two groups has been the ones I originally met in real life. My case specifically.
To each their own. IMHO you would have a better close ratio dedicating oneself to reap life. I recall college girls with 1000s of matches. Meet none. Inflate ego and sense of entitlement. No ****, they're not 9s and 10s. Far from it. Online is low hanging fruit. Liberal women. Cratered SMV, single moms, fatties, war pigs, hogs, etc.

Again, my **** won't suck itself. It is what it is Playboy. Just know your true north.

Anybody male thinking online is game has been pawned harddddddd by the feminine imperative.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Most men be it here or on other pickup forums cannot approach. Are delusional in believing online is game. Its passive dating. Assuming moving one's thumb is game is beyond retarded.

RooshV just called out cucks on tinder in podcast #20. "Don't use it. Problem solved" was his two cents.

This coming from a guy in game for 17+ yrs.

I am around ten total in between life, relations, and before believing in monogamy once upon a time then versus now, 7yrs consistency alternatively.

IRL > online all day!

Online is begging for cucking.

Again, my **** won't suck itself. Swipe right @ life but, putting in work, chain gunning cold approach is GOAT status.



To each their own. IMHO you would have a better close ratio dedicating oneself to reap life. I recall college girls with 1000s of matches. Meet none. Inflate ego and sense of entitlement. No ****, they're not 9s and 10s. Far from it. Online is low hanging fruit. Liberal women. Cratered SMV, single moms, fatties, war pigs, hogs, etc.

Again, my **** won't suck itself. It is what it is Playboy. Just know your true north.

Anybody male thinking online is game has been pawned harddddddd by the feminine imperative.
I suck at it because women don’t think I’m good looking enough to actually decide to meet me in real life over much better looking, younger, richer matches I have. So I’ll just say it’s trash and act like I don’t want to use it anyways
 

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I suck at it because women don’t think I’m good looking enough to actually decide to meet me in real life over much better looking, younger, richer matches I have. So I’ll just say it’s trash and act like I don’t want to use it anyways
I'll bump this after you get cucked. Too late.

Wait wut?
 

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I don't agree with this. I think Tinder and online dating in general is good practice for any man as long as his mindset is in the right place about it. But if he goes on there thinking he is going to find his next wife or GF then that's not the right mindset. I think doing the online thing will build confidence with women, help a guy learn their true nature, etc. So then a guy can be better at approaches in real life.

As for me personally, I would say of all the women in my life I have dated, banged, etc. it's about 60% real life meets and 40% online meets. Hands down I can tell you that the better quality of women I have met of those two groups has been the ones I originally met in real life. My case specifically.
Online dating is actually bad practise. OLD is a world based on women's narrative and puts men in a complacent comfort zone - the end game is you lose.

The best is always approach in real life and with every failure you can only get better with the next, provided you analyse and continously improve approach methods. This is where you as a man take charge and it's at your own narrative.
 

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I tend (of late) to get mainly Jewish women who message me 1st (I usually have to do the 1st messaging). I don't know why. I don't even want to read the message because I'm not particularly interested in a 39 yr old Jewish woman with a picture of her dad and her in one photo. Why do I attract?them

I've been with a Jewish woman recently and it went ok, but in the end, she got miffed about something wouldn't tell me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You sure showed her!

There's no shortage of hoe bags on this planet.
 
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