"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I love the confidence i'm feeling as an aspiring DJ but...

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now very often, when i engage in conversation with chicks i now always use ****y+funny, and i call them on their insecurities and stuff ups and all the rest
however, a lot of them start replying "you're mean" and things of that sort, and it feels as though i'm really offending them....whic is totally not my intention
could it be that perhaps i'm not being funny about it? or is it a mind game? what/
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So pimp its scary

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Tell me, is it a

"You're mean.", as she slaps you a lil, with a grin on her face?

or a

"You're mean!" with a bit of an intense tone, fixing her gaze on you, possibly putting her hands on her hips?

Don't trip out, I have a feeling that you weren't giving it to hard for them. (Unless it more closely ressembled option b)
 
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well actually it's mostly happened over msn
in person, i've yet to actually meet many women at all
although i can definitley see myself becoming more outgoing, even if it is predominantly with male friends for now
 
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yeah bro it's all good.... just have to play it by situation... if a girl is superhot better to be bold... if not so hot try to be subtle and neg hit her using BL and emotions, not language
 
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you are doing it ALL wrong. If a girl is insulated she is insulted. If she is playing the push pull game with you, she will be like fine, and not talk to you, but it will obviously be in a joking manner.

When you neghit a girl it is NOT an insult. NOTTTTTTTTT an insult. Man you newbs annoy me wasting my time with neghit advice.

I will give the easiest example. If you smell a bad smell, u can look at her give her a cheeky grin, and say "whats that smell"? However if you tell her at any random time "you smell" it will not be funny.

You NEVER direcly attack a girls insecurities, just muck around with the girl and tease her a little. Most of the teasing is more like flirting, it is not literally teasing her. Man, hope you understand this, because teasing her directly will do nothing but turn her off you. Neghits are great, but only a small part of the game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So pimp its scary

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Stop meeting girls ONLINE and go meet them in the REAL WORLD!
 
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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Stop meeting girls ONLINE and go meet them in the REAL WORLD!
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You've hit the nail on the head there!...get a life and quit acting like a nerd bro!
 
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lol

"I meet girls and sometimes I insult them"

"Well, I dont actually meet girls. Not in real life"

How about u drop the evolving from youre name, messenger boy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you have high value/attraction as inn she really likes you and she is attracted to you then too much C+F will blow her out and just make her feel unwanted which is very bad.
 
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Originally posted by evolvingnerd
woot
i am going out and meeting em
and i believe one girl is either trying to play me or actually digs me :)
pity i have no interst in her
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interesting how exchanges over the internet were sufficant to the point where both of you could really guage your interests in one another.
 
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