"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SamePendo

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Lately there has been lots of trash talk about Moderators, interesting, valueable people leaving, and all.

I honestly don't know if this moderator, or the other is here all day, or if he insults someone. I mind my buissines, and have fun on this site. Why would I want to leave a site that speaks MY language, OUR language? The DJ language, that brings everybody here together.

If you get advice you don't like, dont take it. If someone offends you, tell them, don't offend them. If you see something you don't like, or maybe have seen before, stop looking.

There are tons of people that are "at your level"... that have the same "fluency" at speaking DJ. And there are also TONS of them who are freaking linguists when it comes to the DJ language.

Why do your posts get closed, or deleted? Because you are getting into the feelings area. You are not being objective. You are bringing animosity between us. You are separating the comunity with senseless criticism. There is a difference between senseless criticism (like ranting and insulting moderators and "normal users", and saying why you hate the site), and constructive criticisim .. like Pook's request for a Financial Forum.

Maybe, your post has all the characteristics to be a non-earasable post. But it lacks something. It has allready been posted. Do a little search, quick search, and then post.

Don't take it personal when Mods intervene in your art.

Constructive criticisism makes scars that eventualy makes us stronger. Senseless, and insulting criticism cuts of our body parts, feelings, and bonds... and these can't be THAT easily brought back.

I love you All.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Constructive criticisism makes scars that eventualy makes us stronger.
This is how I see it. Someone comes here and whines about how some girl pinched him and it hurts. Some experienced DJ comes here and kicks him in the stomach and says, "There, that pinch doesn't hurt so bad now, does it?" The whiny guy either leaves here because his stomach hurts, or he stays here because he realizes the DJ has a point, and maybe there's more to learn. The whiny guy may get the 5hit kicked out of him while he's here, but he gets stronger and learns to fight back. The next time a girl pinches him, he just laughs.

I love you All.
Sorry man, I love myself more than you. :D
 

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For some reason this reminded me of a Jerry Springer episode where after one guy said "Yeah i'm a redneck i admit it" crowd went "we love rednecks, we love rednecks", to which he responded "And rednecks love ya'll".
 

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Good post.

I see most of the complaining posts and nazi-accusions etc. are just humour. Nobody is serious when he says "HEY YOU MODERATOR SUCK ASS AND I FAWKED YOUR MOMMA LAST NIGHT"
If he is serious, he is a dumbass by making a flame.

If a moderator (for example) really sucks ass we go to S&F Forum and discuss about it like grown ups.

Most of the really visible flaming that has came around is just for fun.
Check my signature if you don't believe.

Originally posted by Desdinova
Sorry man, I love myself more than you. :D
?? He didn't say anything about that you should love him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
That's what I hate about the internet. Sarcasm doesn't work as well as IRL
Yeah, I thought the comment was just plain stupid ;)
 

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Haha, I love Sosuave too. It changed my life, that's for sure.
 

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Beautiful post.
 

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There is a LOT of valuable material on SoSuave.com.

Notice that the forum is hosted on sosuave.NET now
Also notice that I specifically said .com and not .net
Coincidence? Mistake? Subtle comment? :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
This is how I see it. Someone comes here and whines about how some girl pinched him and it hurts. Some experienced DJ comes here and kicks him in the stomach and says, "There, that pinch doesn't hurt so bad now, does it?" The whiny guy either leaves here because his stomach hurts, or he stays here because he realizes the DJ has a point, and maybe there's more to learn. The whiny guy may get the 5hit kicked out of him while he's here, but he gets stronger and learns to fight back. The next time a girl pinches him, he just laughs.


There is a difference between that, sarcasm, and plain simple insults. People are leaving because of senseless reasons, etc.

Desdinova, I love you MORE. ;)
 

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I love me too.
 
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