"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lately there has been lots of trash talk about Moderators, interesting, valueable people leaving, and all.

I honestly don't know if this moderator, or the other is here all day, or if he insults someone. I mind my buissines, and have fun on this site. Why would I want to leave a site that speaks MY language, OUR language? The DJ language, that brings everybody here together.

If you get advice you don't like, dont take it. If someone offends you, tell them, don't offend them. If you see something you don't like, or maybe have seen before, stop looking.

There are tons of people that are "at your level"... that have the same "fluency" at speaking DJ. And there are also TONS of them who are freaking linguists when it comes to the DJ language.

Why do your posts get closed, or deleted? Because you are getting into the feelings area. You are not being objective. You are bringing animosity between us. You are separating the comunity with senseless criticism. There is a difference between senseless criticism (like ranting and insulting moderators and "normal users", and saying why you hate the site), and constructive criticisim .. like Pook's request for a Financial Forum.

Maybe, your post has all the characteristics to be a non-earasable post. But it lacks something. It has allready been posted. Do a little search, quick search, and then post.

Don't take it personal when Mods intervene in your art.

Constructive criticisism makes scars that eventualy makes us stronger. Senseless, and insulting criticism cuts of our body parts, feelings, and bonds... and these can't be THAT easily brought back.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Constructive criticisism makes scars that eventualy makes us stronger.
This is how I see it. Someone comes here and whines about how some girl pinched him and it hurts. Some experienced DJ comes here and kicks him in the stomach and says, "There, that pinch doesn't hurt so bad now, does it?" The whiny guy either leaves here because his stomach hurts, or he stays here because he realizes the DJ has a point, and maybe there's more to learn. The whiny guy may get the 5hit kicked out of him while he's here, but he gets stronger and learns to fight back. The next time a girl pinches him, he just laughs.

I love you All.
Sorry man, I love myself more than you. :D
 

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For some reason this reminded me of a Jerry Springer episode where after one guy said "Yeah i'm a redneck i admit it" crowd went "we love rednecks, we love rednecks", to which he responded "And rednecks love ya'll".
 

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Good post.

I see most of the complaining posts and nazi-accusions etc. are just humour. Nobody is serious when he says "HEY YOU MODERATOR SUCK ASS AND I FAWKED YOUR MOMMA LAST NIGHT"
If he is serious, he is a dumbass by making a flame.

If a moderator (for example) really sucks ass we go to S&F Forum and discuss about it like grown ups.

Most of the really visible flaming that has came around is just for fun.
Check my signature if you don't believe.

Originally posted by Desdinova
Sorry man, I love myself more than you. :D
?? He didn't say anything about that you should love him.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
That's what I hate about the internet. Sarcasm doesn't work as well as IRL
Yeah, I thought the comment was just plain stupid ;)
 

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Haha, I love Sosuave too. It changed my life, that's for sure.
 

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Beautiful post.
 

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There is a LOT of valuable material on SoSuave.com.

Notice that the forum is hosted on sosuave.NET now
Also notice that I specifically said .com and not .net
Coincidence? Mistake? Subtle comment? :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Desdinova
This is how I see it. Someone comes here and whines about how some girl pinched him and it hurts. Some experienced DJ comes here and kicks him in the stomach and says, "There, that pinch doesn't hurt so bad now, does it?" The whiny guy either leaves here because his stomach hurts, or he stays here because he realizes the DJ has a point, and maybe there's more to learn. The whiny guy may get the 5hit kicked out of him while he's here, but he gets stronger and learns to fight back. The next time a girl pinches him, he just laughs.


There is a difference between that, sarcasm, and plain simple insults. People are leaving because of senseless reasons, etc.

Desdinova, I love you MORE. ;)
 

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I love me too.
 
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