"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I love clingy women!

Colossus

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I think it's flattering and frankly feels good for a while to get that much attention from a woman. But it has no intrinsic value. She doesn't even know you. She is just infatuated with the idea of you; or with some aspect of your personality that is novel for her.

It's a good practice in life not to take anything too personally, both positive and negative.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BMX

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Yes it does feel good for a while then goes south sooner or later. I'd rather mess around with these clingy types than the single mothers. Another thing about these clingy women is that they run their mouths about you excessively to friends and what not.
 

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Thanks guys, good insight and good input.

I have to admit I'm kind of f*cking with her mind right now, running a jealousy plotline between her and another chick I've been seeing for years but who recently dumped me because I wouldn't marry her, although we remain friends.

I don't really know why I'm doing it. Ever played a sport against someone who was really bad and you ran up the score just because you could? Kind of the same feeling here.
 

Desdinova

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Zarky said:
I don't really know why I'm doing it. Ever played a sport against someone who was really bad and you ran up the score just because you could? Kind of the same feeling here.
When I was new to the game, I would do 5hit just to see what I could get away with. Getting kisses from other girls while I was on a date, having two girls I was dating in the same room together, treating them like 5hit, etc. The funny thing is all of that didn't deter them from being attracted. If anything, it made them even MORE attracted.
 
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