"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I love clingy women!

Colossus

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I think it's flattering and frankly feels good for a while to get that much attention from a woman. But it has no intrinsic value. She doesn't even know you. She is just infatuated with the idea of you; or with some aspect of your personality that is novel for her.

It's a good practice in life not to take anything too personally, both positive and negative.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes it does feel good for a while then goes south sooner or later. I'd rather mess around with these clingy types than the single mothers. Another thing about these clingy women is that they run their mouths about you excessively to friends and what not.
 

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Thanks guys, good insight and good input.

I have to admit I'm kind of f*cking with her mind right now, running a jealousy plotline between her and another chick I've been seeing for years but who recently dumped me because I wouldn't marry her, although we remain friends.

I don't really know why I'm doing it. Ever played a sport against someone who was really bad and you ran up the score just because you could? Kind of the same feeling here.
 

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Zarky said:
I don't really know why I'm doing it. Ever played a sport against someone who was really bad and you ran up the score just because you could? Kind of the same feeling here.
When I was new to the game, I would do 5hit just to see what I could get away with. Getting kisses from other girls while I was on a date, having two girls I was dating in the same room together, treating them like 5hit, etc. The funny thing is all of that didn't deter them from being attracted. If anything, it made them even MORE attracted.
 
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