I lose my confidence when...

[Xenomorph]

I see another guy that looks "cooler" or seems to have more "confidence".

For example, today I saw a HB8. But my confidence was nowhere to be found when I saw another guy checking her out who also had his **** together. He didn't approach her but I couldn't bring myself to say anything to her.

Does any suffer from this problem?

 

[Ice Cold]

nope

you're all alone there man

 

[rgeere]

Yeah,

Stop looking at other people.

You have an inferiority complex.

 

[Ice Cold]

So much support for the first post LOL

Try to reframe. Next time you see a guy, picture yourself going the same thing. Then think: "hey, if this guy can do it, I can do it too."

And you're gonna feel much better about yourself

 

[Dukester]

I find myself loosing confidence sometimes too. In fact, i was w/ a group of guys and girls, and i was eyeing this one girl, but the other guy cut in my way. i was doing my dj skills just great, except he kinda pushed me outta the way. i still didnt let it stop me from flirting with her though, and that sorta thing. actually, in the end, he ended up getting nothing, and i got her num. i felt that when he "cut in front of me" that he was better- turns out he was just an AFC, but i did loose some confidence. just gotta keep going man...

 

[chicksrock]

Work on yourself...
make yourself unique..
then you will never feel like that ever again