"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I lose my confidence when...

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Xenomorph

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I see another guy that looks "cooler" or seems to have more "confidence".

For example, today I saw a HB8. But my confidence was nowhere to be found when I saw another guy checking her out who also had his **** together. He didn't approach her but I couldn't bring myself to say anything to her.

Does any suffer from this problem?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So much support for the first post :D LOL

Try to reframe. Next time you see a guy, picture yourself going the same thing. Then think: "hey, if this guy can do it, I can do it too."

And you're gonna feel much better about yourself
 
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I find myself loosing confidence sometimes too. In fact, i was w/ a group of guys and girls, and i was eyeing this one girl, but the other guy cut in my way. i was doing my dj skills just great, except he kinda pushed me outta the way. i still didnt let it stop me from flirting with her though, and that sorta thing. actually, in the end, he ended up getting nothing, and i got her num. i felt that when he "cut in front of me" that he was better- turns out he was just an AFC, but i did loose some confidence. just gotta keep going man...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Work on yourself...
make yourself unique..
then you will never feel like that ever again
 
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