"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i lose interest...

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izzit jus me... when girls start to txt me and call over and over too much, i kind of lose interest for her & her rating goes down?

i don't wanna lose interest, how do i maintain my IL with her? It's like as soon as i find out she is "head over heels" over me i wanna "next" her.. i dunno why.. lol any1 else feel like this? :confused:
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You're not alone..lol

There was this girl i was interested in, and as soon as she started calling and texting, and showed interest, I became disinterested!

But, as soon as she quit contacting me, I started to miss her.

You see what you can learn from this? Hold back a bit, and she'll go after you.

Text and phone her too often, and she'll want to get away from you!
 
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It's the basic rule in attraction.

You want what you can't have. Once you know you have it, it's cool for a little while, then it gets boring.

Ever listen to a song so much that you can't stand to hear it anymore? Same thing.

I think everybody suffers from this. I think it's natures way of saying that marriage isn't the greatest idea in the world.
 
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To the 2 posters above me: Does'nt it suck though? It's like a game. Never would I have thought "Attraction" worked this way.

It's just too much like a game... :(
 
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Originally posted by Skweints

I think everybody suffers from this. I think it's natures way of saying that marriage isn't the greatest idea in the world.
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haha, good point!

Well, now you know why women will be into you one minute and flake on you the next. The next time you feel yourself feeling a little AFCish, think about what you posted, lol.

It's just the way it goes bro, it's human nature.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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