"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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izzit jus me... when girls start to txt me and call over and over too much, i kind of lose interest for her & her rating goes down?

i don't wanna lose interest, how do i maintain my IL with her? It's like as soon as i find out she is "head over heels" over me i wanna "next" her.. i dunno why.. lol any1 else feel like this? :confused:
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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nistelrooy

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You're not alone..lol

There was this girl i was interested in, and as soon as she started calling and texting, and showed interest, I became disinterested!

But, as soon as she quit contacting me, I started to miss her.

You see what you can learn from this? Hold back a bit, and she'll go after you.

Text and phone her too often, and she'll want to get away from you!
 

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It's the basic rule in attraction.

You want what you can't have. Once you know you have it, it's cool for a little while, then it gets boring.

Ever listen to a song so much that you can't stand to hear it anymore? Same thing.

I think everybody suffers from this. I think it's natures way of saying that marriage isn't the greatest idea in the world.
 
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To the 2 posters above me: Does'nt it suck though? It's like a game. Never would I have thought "Attraction" worked this way.

It's just too much like a game... :(
 

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Originally posted by Skweints

I think everybody suffers from this. I think it's natures way of saying that marriage isn't the greatest idea in the world.
haha, good point!

Well, now you know why women will be into you one minute and flake on you the next. The next time you feel yourself feeling a little AFCish, think about what you posted, lol.

It's just the way it goes bro, it's human nature.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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