"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i lose interest...

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izzit jus me... when girls start to txt me and call over and over too much, i kind of lose interest for her & her rating goes down?

i don't wanna lose interest, how do i maintain my IL with her? It's like as soon as i find out she is "head over heels" over me i wanna "next" her.. i dunno why.. lol any1 else feel like this? :confused:
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're not alone..lol

There was this girl i was interested in, and as soon as she started calling and texting, and showed interest, I became disinterested!

But, as soon as she quit contacting me, I started to miss her.

You see what you can learn from this? Hold back a bit, and she'll go after you.

Text and phone her too often, and she'll want to get away from you!
 
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It's the basic rule in attraction.

You want what you can't have. Once you know you have it, it's cool for a little while, then it gets boring.

Ever listen to a song so much that you can't stand to hear it anymore? Same thing.

I think everybody suffers from this. I think it's natures way of saying that marriage isn't the greatest idea in the world.
 
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To the 2 posters above me: Does'nt it suck though? It's like a game. Never would I have thought "Attraction" worked this way.

It's just too much like a game... :(
 
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Originally posted by Skweints

I think everybody suffers from this. I think it's natures way of saying that marriage isn't the greatest idea in the world.
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haha, good point!

Well, now you know why women will be into you one minute and flake on you the next. The next time you feel yourself feeling a little AFCish, think about what you posted, lol.

It's just the way it goes bro, it's human nature.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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