"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I look too serious for them

nvictor

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DJs,

I look too serious for them. How can I change that?
I think every DJs must have an attractive personnality.

I would like to be funny. I have a friend that do it great,
without being Mr Funny of the group. Another one is our
Mr. Funny. You can look at him and laugh. The former
would make comparison, or would suddenly sing something
that would get all the group laughing.

Any idea ??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nvictor

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just wanted to add that I'm not talking about
teasing laughs here (I'm able to get those ones)

I'm talking about good laugh :D
 

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I have the same problem, in the past many women said that I looked too serious and needed to cheer up, I can't help it, tis the face I was given at birth LOL :(

try recording yourself with a camera / webcam and trying different facial expressions, or you could just smile! ;)
 

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wow my group never had MR Funny
we had Mr Belligerent after 3 drinks , though
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you are happy then you won't look serious - you will look happy.
 

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Lol, I can be 'too serious' at times too. Somedays I'm just 'off', not interested in really going out, talking about interesting things/telling fun stories.. I simply have a mental disconnect with being social haha.

Seems dumb I realize, but I've found that I'm the kind of person that likes to hang out on my own, reflect, just relax by myself like once or twice a week. Its refreshing. So some days when I feel like I should just do my own thing, and I get dragged out somewhere, I get the 'Too serious' comment lol.

It doesn't faze me though, I don't get down or put off because of it lol, just bounces off me.
 
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