"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I look too serious for them

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DJs,

I look too serious for them. How can I change that?
I think every DJs must have an attractive personnality.

I would like to be funny. I have a friend that do it great,
without being Mr Funny of the group. Another one is our
Mr. Funny. You can look at him and laugh. The former
would make comparison, or would suddenly sing something
that would get all the group laughing.

Any idea ??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just wanted to add that I'm not talking about
teasing laughs here (I'm able to get those ones)

I'm talking about good laugh :D
 
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I have the same problem, in the past many women said that I looked too serious and needed to cheer up, I can't help it, tis the face I was given at birth LOL :(

try recording yourself with a camera / webcam and trying different facial expressions, or you could just smile! ;)
 
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wow my group never had MR Funny
we had Mr Belligerent after 3 drinks , though
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you are happy then you won't look serious - you will look happy.
 
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Lol, I can be 'too serious' at times too. Somedays I'm just 'off', not interested in really going out, talking about interesting things/telling fun stories.. I simply have a mental disconnect with being social haha.

Seems dumb I realize, but I've found that I'm the kind of person that likes to hang out on my own, reflect, just relax by myself like once or twice a week. Its refreshing. So some days when I feel like I should just do my own thing, and I get dragged out somewhere, I get the 'Too serious' comment lol.

It doesn't faze me though, I don't get down or put off because of it lol, just bounces off me.
 
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