"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I look too serious for them

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DJs,

I look too serious for them. How can I change that?
I think every DJs must have an attractive personnality.

I would like to be funny. I have a friend that do it great,
without being Mr Funny of the group. Another one is our
Mr. Funny. You can look at him and laugh. The former
would make comparison, or would suddenly sing something
that would get all the group laughing.

Any idea ??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just wanted to add that I'm not talking about
teasing laughs here (I'm able to get those ones)

I'm talking about good laugh :D
 
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I have the same problem, in the past many women said that I looked too serious and needed to cheer up, I can't help it, tis the face I was given at birth LOL :(

try recording yourself with a camera / webcam and trying different facial expressions, or you could just smile! ;)
 
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wow my group never had MR Funny
we had Mr Belligerent after 3 drinks , though
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you are happy then you won't look serious - you will look happy.
 
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Lol, I can be 'too serious' at times too. Somedays I'm just 'off', not interested in really going out, talking about interesting things/telling fun stories.. I simply have a mental disconnect with being social haha.

Seems dumb I realize, but I've found that I'm the kind of person that likes to hang out on my own, reflect, just relax by myself like once or twice a week. Its refreshing. So some days when I feel like I should just do my own thing, and I get dragged out somewhere, I get the 'Too serious' comment lol.

It doesn't faze me though, I don't get down or put off because of it lol, just bounces off me.
 
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