"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I look too serious for them

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DJs,

I look too serious for them. How can I change that?
I think every DJs must have an attractive personnality.

I would like to be funny. I have a friend that do it great,
without being Mr Funny of the group. Another one is our
Mr. Funny. You can look at him and laugh. The former
would make comparison, or would suddenly sing something
that would get all the group laughing.

Any idea ??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just wanted to add that I'm not talking about
teasing laughs here (I'm able to get those ones)

I'm talking about good laugh :D
 
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I have the same problem, in the past many women said that I looked too serious and needed to cheer up, I can't help it, tis the face I was given at birth LOL :(

try recording yourself with a camera / webcam and trying different facial expressions, or you could just smile! ;)
 
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wow my group never had MR Funny
we had Mr Belligerent after 3 drinks , though
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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If you are happy then you won't look serious - you will look happy.
 
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Lol, I can be 'too serious' at times too. Somedays I'm just 'off', not interested in really going out, talking about interesting things/telling fun stories.. I simply have a mental disconnect with being social haha.

Seems dumb I realize, but I've found that I'm the kind of person that likes to hang out on my own, reflect, just relax by myself like once or twice a week. Its refreshing. So some days when I feel like I should just do my own thing, and I get dragged out somewhere, I get the 'Too serious' comment lol.

It doesn't faze me though, I don't get down or put off because of it lol, just bounces off me.
 
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