"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I look f*ckin hot in a suit.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
why wouldn't you, just because people are gonna hate you for it?Stéphane said:
I live in fvcking Iowa, where people wear farmer shirts, old jeans and tennis shoes.
If you want to live an exceptional life and attract exceptional women you have to dress and behave exceptionally well...
How old are you btw?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Yeah peeeeiiimmppp. Thats what I'm talkin about.ChrizZ said:
Stephane, you don't always gotta wear a SUIT.
Try, nice jeans, nice shoes, button up (or good looking tee, but not as fancy), and expensive sports jacket.
Now I say expensive because (**** what those hippies say) the difference between a $50 sports jacket and a $300 sports jacket is tremendous. You'll only need a couple (black, blue, white (if you really want), its the undershirts you'll want a lot of. It's good to have collered shirts of all colors, styles (striped, textured, patterns, etc.)
Ties are an extra thing, not needed, but can be pulled off.
ChrizZ, you can pull off a full suit in a club? Right on, brotha. Me, I'd go with the nice jeans, nice button up (no tie) or cool teeshirt look.
Dress fly to look fly
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Joe The Homophobe
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I saw the trailer of "mean streets" (mob movie that introduced the world to young Robert De Niro) and I noticed the way the guys dressed there to hang out (sports coats, suits) and I really liked the look of Tony (hes in the trailer wearing the brown sports coat with black shirt) so I went to the store and got me a brown sports coat just like his (my first sports coat)
It definitely gets me noticed and I feel respect from women. I also feel a bit of jealousy as people look at me overdressed. I don't have chri's problem over here there are tons of hippis everywhere and I had read that they hate on anyone that they feel that looks like a "yuppy" (anyone that dresses decent pretty much). The important thing is you can feel that you are being hated by the haters, you can notice people giving you strange looks, but the one thing you know for sure is that sharp dressed men command respect from people (specially women). A sharp dressed man shows he means business in the eyes of people, even in the eyes of haters.
The more haters you have, the more it shows that you are on the right path.Joe The Homophobe said:I bought my first sports coat like 3 weeks ago and now I refuse to go out of the house without one! I went back 2 days later to get another one. Now I got 3 and am waiting for a paycheck to get me a suit (the jacket + matching pants).
I saw the trailer of "mean streets" (mob movie that introduced the world to young Robert De Niro) and I noticed the way the guys dressed there to hang out (sports coats, suits) and I really liked the look of Tony (hes in the trailer wearing the brown sports coat with black shirt) so I went to the store and got me a brown sports coat just like his (my first sports coat)
It definitely gets me noticed and I feel respect from women. I also feel a bit of jealousy as people look at me overdressed. I don't have chri's problem over here there are tons of hippis everywhere and I had read that they hate on anyone that they feel that looks like a "yuppy" (anyone that dresses decent pretty much). The important thing is you can feel that you are being hated by the haters, you can notice people giving you strange looks, but the one thing you know for sure is that sharp dressed men command respect from people (specially women)
Chumps will always try to drag down the person that stands out from the crowd.
That's why I always fly solo.
Chumps hate me, women love me.
You have to realize that 99% of the people out there are sheep and too afraid to go against the crowd because they are scared of criticism...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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