"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I learned the hard way

bibby18

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I used everything I learned from reading this website to get the girl I had always wanted, and ironicly getting her was the whole reason I came to here in the first place. But fellas I let my gaurd down and was dropped like a bad habit. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I KNOW I HAVE to let her go. I KNOW we WONT get back together. I KNOW this should be a LEARNING expierence but I just cant seem to frickin get over it.

The worst part is I KNEW when I was messing up but I just couldnt stop myself.

I need my confidence back but nothing I seem to do now is helping me. Make no mistake, I WANT to get over this.

I thought I was a pretty good a DJ. Do DJ's get hurt though?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dyce

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nobody eva believes theories til they learn the hard way

dw bro, i been thru all the hard times. u'll get over it. rite now ur thinking "no i wont" but u will in 2 weeks max

i dont think real DJ's (as in those who have made it to true DJ status) get hurt, bcoz they are quick to next and dont get too caught up with any girl. they stand alone happy and any girl is merely a bonus. losing their girl is just losing a small small part of their great life
 

CHOCOLATE(COLA)

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what you honestly need is for one of your friends to hook you up with a really hott chick that is willing for a one night stand, and you will forget about this X.
 
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