"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I learned the hard way

bibby18

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I used everything I learned from reading this website to get the girl I had always wanted, and ironicly getting her was the whole reason I came to here in the first place. But fellas I let my gaurd down and was dropped like a bad habit. This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I KNOW I HAVE to let her go. I KNOW we WONT get back together. I KNOW this should be a LEARNING expierence but I just cant seem to frickin get over it.

The worst part is I KNEW when I was messing up but I just couldnt stop myself.

I need my confidence back but nothing I seem to do now is helping me. Make no mistake, I WANT to get over this.

I thought I was a pretty good a DJ. Do DJ's get hurt though?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dyce

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nobody eva believes theories til they learn the hard way

dw bro, i been thru all the hard times. u'll get over it. rite now ur thinking "no i wont" but u will in 2 weeks max

i dont think real DJ's (as in those who have made it to true DJ status) get hurt, bcoz they are quick to next and dont get too caught up with any girl. they stand alone happy and any girl is merely a bonus. losing their girl is just losing a small small part of their great life
 

CHOCOLATE(COLA)

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what you honestly need is for one of your friends to hook you up with a really hott chick that is willing for a one night stand, and you will forget about this X.
 
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