I know this may be redundant but just wanted to show actual convo...

[Giantsfan88]

(DAY OF DATE) Her - So apparently I've met your brother and now I feel weird going to your house
Me - Didn't think you were coming. I already made plans


I said that to deflect the flake but I think it was pretty obvious with my words that I was expecting her to flake. I think I conveyed feminine uncertain energy with my text. Is there anyway she could possibly be attracted to me? I think I made myself look insecure and not confident. Honestly, by the looks of it, how insecure and not confident? Would a reframe even be possible?

 

[Giantsfan88]

I've never said anything this bad before. It'd be helpful for me to get a female perspective on how this would get interpreted...

 

[Chamber36]

She could see it as teasing.

She could see it as pvssyfooting.

It all depends on how you act in person.

 

[old_skoolr]

She could see it as teasing.

She could see it as pvssyfooting.

It all depends on how you act in person.

If his had to make a post about it, then reply to the post because no one posted.

Then shes gonna see it as pvssyfooting.

Seriously OP, if you knew she was gonna flake, why bother wasting your time on her in the first place.

 

[:-)]

I've never said anything this bad before. It'd be helpful for me to get a female perspective on how this would get interpreted...

On a site designed for men?

 

[salinechow]

Chowfucius says:

You are standing on your own feet while trying to walk.