"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I know this may be redundant but just wanted to show actual convo...

Giantsfan88

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(DAY OF DATE) Her - So apparently I've met your brother and now I feel weird going to your house
Me - Didn't think you were coming. I already made plans


I said that to deflect the flake but I think it was pretty obvious with my words that I was expecting her to flake. I think I conveyed feminine uncertain energy with my text. Is there anyway she could possibly be attracted to me? I think I made myself look insecure and not confident. Honestly, by the looks of it, how insecure and not confident? Would a reframe even be possible?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've never said anything this bad before. It'd be helpful for me to get a female perspective on how this would get interpreted...
 

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She could see it as teasing.

She could see it as pvssyfooting.

It all depends on how you act in person.
 

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Chamber36 said:
She could see it as teasing.

She could see it as pvssyfooting.

It all depends on how you act in person.

If his had to make a post about it, then reply to the post because no one posted.

Then shes gonna see it as pvssyfooting.

Seriously OP, if you knew she was gonna flake, why bother wasting your time on her in the first place.
 

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Giantsfan88 said:
I've never said anything this bad before. It'd be helpful for me to get a female perspective on how this would get interpreted...
On a site designed for men?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Chowfucius says:

You are standing on your own feet while trying to walk.
 
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