"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I know this is a noob question , but . . .

ashman1

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What is the best process for the "Cell Phone Close " ?
this area is still a little awkward for me , that and openers
any suggestions ? - N :cool:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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1) *Stick out your phone , hand it to them * say : PUT YOUR NUMBER THERE

2) Give them a piece of paper and pen and say to them be creative . They'll think for a sec than say to them : put your number there are draw a little picture of yourself :D (credit:STYLE)

3) I gotta get back to my friends , gimme your phone and we'll contact :D .

4) Take their phone , dial your number on their phone and call it just to get their number . Than say , OK , i have your number , you have mine .

Always command . Never ask for it . Dont say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER or something like that . Just command them .
 

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Take out your phone and put them to dial it or take out of phone and tell ask her "what's your number?" or "give me your number.." and you prepare to dial you (or you can use something more elaborate..it doesn't matter anyway)
If you believe that you will get the number...in 95% of the situations you will get it.
 

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Give her a reason to want to meet. Do some foreshadowing etc and talk about a future date you will go on. Then tell her to put her number into your phone and call her to make sure you have it right and she has yours. A BIG thing is to stay and carry on running game after you have the number. Otherwise it looks like you are collecting it as a trophy or something. A lot of PUAs say getting a number is a last resort, but I actually like to get it fairly early on as it builds in her mind the idea of you as a serious prospect, not just a bar pickup.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
1) *Stick out your phone , hand it to them * say : PUT YOUR NUMBER THERE

2) Give them a piece of paper and pen and say to them be creative . They'll think for a sec than say to them : put your number there are draw a little picture of yourself :D (credit:STYLE)

3) I gotta get back to my friends , gimme your phone and we'll contact :D .

4) Take their phone , dial your number on their phone and call it just to get their number . Than say , OK , i have your number , you have mine .

Always command . Never ask for it . Dont say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER or something like that . Just command them .
That's how you should do it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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n00bPimp

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If im not mistaken the OP is asking the process to get their phone number as opposed to putting down their phone number.
It all depends on the venue/ situation.
The best way is to use a preopener as much as possible. Its a ramdom comment that measures their willingness to be openned. For example, if you're standing at a line in a fast food, you can preopen with "I'm starving!", with a big friendly smile. Then you calibrate. If she gives you a positive response then you can open her, if she ignores you or responds in an unfriendly manner, then don't waste your time.
Now you can open, it all depends on the situation.
Here's a good reading about openers:
http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/pickup-skills/guide-to-blowout-free-opening.html

Then for the close follow Daddy The Pimp's advice.
 
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