"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I know this is a noob question , but . . .

ashman1

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What is the best process for the "Cell Phone Close " ?
this area is still a little awkward for me , that and openers
any suggestions ? - N :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Daddy The Pimp

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1) *Stick out your phone , hand it to them * say : PUT YOUR NUMBER THERE

2) Give them a piece of paper and pen and say to them be creative . They'll think for a sec than say to them : put your number there are draw a little picture of yourself :D (credit:STYLE)

3) I gotta get back to my friends , gimme your phone and we'll contact :D .

4) Take their phone , dial your number on their phone and call it just to get their number . Than say , OK , i have your number , you have mine .

Always command . Never ask for it . Dont say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER or something like that . Just command them .
 

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Take out your phone and put them to dial it or take out of phone and tell ask her "what's your number?" or "give me your number.." and you prepare to dial you (or you can use something more elaborate..it doesn't matter anyway)
If you believe that you will get the number...in 95% of the situations you will get it.
 

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Give her a reason to want to meet. Do some foreshadowing etc and talk about a future date you will go on. Then tell her to put her number into your phone and call her to make sure you have it right and she has yours. A BIG thing is to stay and carry on running game after you have the number. Otherwise it looks like you are collecting it as a trophy or something. A lot of PUAs say getting a number is a last resort, but I actually like to get it fairly early on as it builds in her mind the idea of you as a serious prospect, not just a bar pickup.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
1) *Stick out your phone , hand it to them * say : PUT YOUR NUMBER THERE

2) Give them a piece of paper and pen and say to them be creative . They'll think for a sec than say to them : put your number there are draw a little picture of yourself :D (credit:STYLE)

3) I gotta get back to my friends , gimme your phone and we'll contact :D .

4) Take their phone , dial your number on their phone and call it just to get their number . Than say , OK , i have your number , you have mine .

Always command . Never ask for it . Dont say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER or something like that . Just command them .
That's how you should do it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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n00bPimp

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If im not mistaken the OP is asking the process to get their phone number as opposed to putting down their phone number.
It all depends on the venue/ situation.
The best way is to use a preopener as much as possible. Its a ramdom comment that measures their willingness to be openned. For example, if you're standing at a line in a fast food, you can preopen with "I'm starving!", with a big friendly smile. Then you calibrate. If she gives you a positive response then you can open her, if she ignores you or responds in an unfriendly manner, then don't waste your time.
Now you can open, it all depends on the situation.
Here's a good reading about openers:
http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/pickup-skills/guide-to-blowout-free-opening.html

Then for the close follow Daddy The Pimp's advice.
 
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