"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know this is a noob question , but . . .

ashman1

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What is the best process for the "Cell Phone Close " ?
this area is still a little awkward for me , that and openers
any suggestions ? - N :cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Daddy The Pimp

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1) *Stick out your phone , hand it to them * say : PUT YOUR NUMBER THERE

2) Give them a piece of paper and pen and say to them be creative . They'll think for a sec than say to them : put your number there are draw a little picture of yourself :D (credit:STYLE)

3) I gotta get back to my friends , gimme your phone and we'll contact :D .

4) Take their phone , dial your number on their phone and call it just to get their number . Than say , OK , i have your number , you have mine .

Always command . Never ask for it . Dont say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER or something like that . Just command them .
 

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Take out your phone and put them to dial it or take out of phone and tell ask her "what's your number?" or "give me your number.." and you prepare to dial you (or you can use something more elaborate..it doesn't matter anyway)
If you believe that you will get the number...in 95% of the situations you will get it.
 

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Give her a reason to want to meet. Do some foreshadowing etc and talk about a future date you will go on. Then tell her to put her number into your phone and call her to make sure you have it right and she has yours. A BIG thing is to stay and carry on running game after you have the number. Otherwise it looks like you are collecting it as a trophy or something. A lot of PUAs say getting a number is a last resort, but I actually like to get it fairly early on as it builds in her mind the idea of you as a serious prospect, not just a bar pickup.
 

daygameguy

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Daddy The Pimp said:
1) *Stick out your phone , hand it to them * say : PUT YOUR NUMBER THERE

2) Give them a piece of paper and pen and say to them be creative . They'll think for a sec than say to them : put your number there are draw a little picture of yourself :D (credit:STYLE)

3) I gotta get back to my friends , gimme your phone and we'll contact :D .

4) Take their phone , dial your number on their phone and call it just to get their number . Than say , OK , i have your number , you have mine .

Always command . Never ask for it . Dont say CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER or something like that . Just command them .
That's how you should do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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n00bPimp

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If im not mistaken the OP is asking the process to get their phone number as opposed to putting down their phone number.
It all depends on the venue/ situation.
The best way is to use a preopener as much as possible. Its a ramdom comment that measures their willingness to be openned. For example, if you're standing at a line in a fast food, you can preopen with "I'm starving!", with a big friendly smile. Then you calibrate. If she gives you a positive response then you can open her, if she ignores you or responds in an unfriendly manner, then don't waste your time.
Now you can open, it all depends on the situation.
Here's a good reading about openers:
http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/pickup-skills/guide-to-blowout-free-opening.html

Then for the close follow Daddy The Pimp's advice.
 
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