"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i know this happens a lot

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When ur girl calls u after 3 months of no interest from both sides.

my girl is moving back home in a month...so she called me late night...blah blah.. Flirt flirt...then says she wants to be friends. (yea right girl, like u don't remember that I own ur multiple orgasms)

so...is that a shyt test, power move on her part?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Willard

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You could go hang out with as a friend then try to bang her, who knows what's going on in a woman's mind, I wouldn't put much effort into her because she mentioned friend to you.
 

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She wants the D. Im sure she has plenty of "friends". Her calling you her "friend" is her way of not feeling like a slut when she calls some guy over to bang randomly. She has plausible deniability for when "it just happens".

Just because she calls you her "friend" does not make you in the friendzone necessarily. Similar to how girls say "i want to date him" when they really mean "i want to fvck his brains out". I've had girls that i'm sleeping with call me a friend when we're clearly not. This is pretty common when you're sleeping with a girl, but not in an exclusive relationship with her. She can't introduce you to her friends as "some dude i'm banging but not dating", so she calls you a friend.

But back to your situation...im assuming you already slept with her previously? If so, then you're good. If not..then you might still be good. Might as well go for it.
 

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Would I be going out on a limb to say that she expects me to chase her now and I'm going to look like I put her at the top. I mean...i put a cute pvssy and sweet cvm juices at top 3, but she's playing some other game...i suspect.

hot guy problems, am I right? Lol
 
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