"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i know this happens a lot

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When ur girl calls u after 3 months of no interest from both sides.

my girl is moving back home in a month...so she called me late night...blah blah.. Flirt flirt...then says she wants to be friends. (yea right girl, like u don't remember that I own ur multiple orgasms)

so...is that a shyt test, power move on her part?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Willard

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You could go hang out with as a friend then try to bang her, who knows what's going on in a woman's mind, I wouldn't put much effort into her because she mentioned friend to you.
 

gravityeyelids

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She wants the D. Im sure she has plenty of "friends". Her calling you her "friend" is her way of not feeling like a slut when she calls some guy over to bang randomly. She has plausible deniability for when "it just happens".

Just because she calls you her "friend" does not make you in the friendzone necessarily. Similar to how girls say "i want to date him" when they really mean "i want to fvck his brains out". I've had girls that i'm sleeping with call me a friend when we're clearly not. This is pretty common when you're sleeping with a girl, but not in an exclusive relationship with her. She can't introduce you to her friends as "some dude i'm banging but not dating", so she calls you a friend.

But back to your situation...im assuming you already slept with her previously? If so, then you're good. If not..then you might still be good. Might as well go for it.
 

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Would I be going out on a limb to say that she expects me to chase her now and I'm going to look like I put her at the top. I mean...i put a cute pvssy and sweet cvm juices at top 3, but she's playing some other game...i suspect.

hot guy problems, am I right? Lol
 
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