"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i know this happens a lot

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When ur girl calls u after 3 months of no interest from both sides.

my girl is moving back home in a month...so she called me late night...blah blah.. Flirt flirt...then says she wants to be friends. (yea right girl, like u don't remember that I own ur multiple orgasms)

so...is that a shyt test, power move on her part?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Willard

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You could go hang out with as a friend then try to bang her, who knows what's going on in a woman's mind, I wouldn't put much effort into her because she mentioned friend to you.
 

gravityeyelids

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She wants the D. Im sure she has plenty of "friends". Her calling you her "friend" is her way of not feeling like a slut when she calls some guy over to bang randomly. She has plausible deniability for when "it just happens".

Just because she calls you her "friend" does not make you in the friendzone necessarily. Similar to how girls say "i want to date him" when they really mean "i want to fvck his brains out". I've had girls that i'm sleeping with call me a friend when we're clearly not. This is pretty common when you're sleeping with a girl, but not in an exclusive relationship with her. She can't introduce you to her friends as "some dude i'm banging but not dating", so she calls you a friend.

But back to your situation...im assuming you already slept with her previously? If so, then you're good. If not..then you might still be good. Might as well go for it.
 

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Would I be going out on a limb to say that she expects me to chase her now and I'm going to look like I put her at the top. I mean...i put a cute pvssy and sweet cvm juices at top 3, but she's playing some other game...i suspect.

hot guy problems, am I right? Lol
 
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