Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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i know this girl likes me but what should i do?

tatlongxxx

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presently, me and my co-worker has a good conversation and doing fine. many signs of attraction i felt with her (she laugh when i make her laugh....eye contact with a smile..etc....).

we cannot chat a lot at our office because we have jobs to cope with. in that case, i want to take her out and talk about something else so that we could get to know each other.

the problem is, how can i tell her to go out (watch movies, dinner.... etc) or anything that would have a long conversation.

what is the best approach should i do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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any other DJ advice.......

i've done it rabbit but the problem is she wants to have companion.
 

Vincent

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Tap that ass then :p

I would suggest going window shopping downtown, something fun like that. There would be lots of interesting shops to spur conversation, etc, etc. Artsy crap like that is always fun, plus you get to be walking with her having a good conversation.
 
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