"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i know this girl likes me but what should i do?

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presently, me and my co-worker has a good conversation and doing fine. many signs of attraction i felt with her (she laugh when i make her laugh....eye contact with a smile..etc....).

we cannot chat a lot at our office because we have jobs to cope with. in that case, i want to take her out and talk about something else so that we could get to know each other.

the problem is, how can i tell her to go out (watch movies, dinner.... etc) or anything that would have a long conversation.

what is the best approach should i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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any other DJ advice.......

i've done it rabbit but the problem is she wants to have companion.
 
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Tap that ass then :p

I would suggest going window shopping downtown, something fun like that. There would be lots of interesting shops to spur conversation, etc, etc. Artsy crap like that is always fun, plus you get to be walking with her having a good conversation.
 
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