"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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I know I should go....but a bit awkward?

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So I met this girl at work last year....went to college and didn't talk to her much but she's always been real nice to me and we get along well. She's going to my school in the fall so i figured i'd start talking to her more. Anyways I was talking to her last night and said we should hang out to which she said she's love to. Well she invited me to her friend's grad party today. Thing is I don't know anyone there besides this girl who invited me. All my friends seem to be busy too so yea looks like it's either go alone or not go. I know I should but ah i'd hate feeling awkward and stupid lol

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Just relax man.

You'll be alright and maybe make some new friends too along with establishing some more rapport with this chick.

Sounds like a win win situation to me. :up:
 
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Man i went through a very similar situation recently.

If you don't go you'll definitely wish you weren't a ***** and have went. My advice is to go, get some alcohol in your system, and be extremely friendly. If you are making friends and not clinging to her the entire time, she will notice this and your value level will for sure go up.
 
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Yea I'm def going....one of my best friends just called me and he's now coming with me....close one haha
 
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Yea I'm def going....one of my best friends just called me and he's now coming with me....close one haha
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even better, but still socialize with her friends because she obviously wants A. for you to meet her friends and for them to meet you, and B. for you to spend time with her. Don't ignore your friend, but don't only chat with him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh yea I know....I did talk to everyone even to her fat friend lol. Nothing happened but once again I wasn't expecting anything to tonight...not at a grad party with mostly family.

The highlight was when i told her mom that I'd have this girl in bed by eight lol. B/c she was like "look out after her and keep her in line at college....make sure she makes curfew" she was just kidding around so i was like "yea ill have her in bed by 8...."
 
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Oh yea I know....I did talk to everyone even to her fat friend lol. Nothing happened but once again I wasn't expecting anything to tonight...not at a grad party with mostly family.

The highlight was when i told her mom that I'd have this girl in bed by eight lol. B/c she was like "look out after her and keep her in line at college....make sure she makes curfew" she was just kidding around so i was like "yea ill have her in bed by 8...."
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haha, that's very risky BUT hilarious.
 
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