"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know I should go....but a bit awkward?

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So I met this girl at work last year....went to college and didn't talk to her much but she's always been real nice to me and we get along well. She's going to my school in the fall so i figured i'd start talking to her more. Anyways I was talking to her last night and said we should hang out to which she said she's love to. Well she invited me to her friend's grad party today. Thing is I don't know anyone there besides this girl who invited me. All my friends seem to be busy too so yea looks like it's either go alone or not go. I know I should but ah i'd hate feeling awkward and stupid lol

any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just relax man.

You'll be alright and maybe make some new friends too along with establishing some more rapport with this chick.

Sounds like a win win situation to me. :up:
 
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Man i went through a very similar situation recently.

If you don't go you'll definitely wish you weren't a ***** and have went. My advice is to go, get some alcohol in your system, and be extremely friendly. If you are making friends and not clinging to her the entire time, she will notice this and your value level will for sure go up.
 
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Yea I'm def going....one of my best friends just called me and he's now coming with me....close one haha
 
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Yea I'm def going....one of my best friends just called me and he's now coming with me....close one haha
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even better, but still socialize with her friends because she obviously wants A. for you to meet her friends and for them to meet you, and B. for you to spend time with her. Don't ignore your friend, but don't only chat with him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh yea I know....I did talk to everyone even to her fat friend lol. Nothing happened but once again I wasn't expecting anything to tonight...not at a grad party with mostly family.

The highlight was when i told her mom that I'd have this girl in bed by eight lol. B/c she was like "look out after her and keep her in line at college....make sure she makes curfew" she was just kidding around so i was like "yea ill have her in bed by 8...."
 
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Incubus said:
Oh yea I know....I did talk to everyone even to her fat friend lol. Nothing happened but once again I wasn't expecting anything to tonight...not at a grad party with mostly family.

The highlight was when i told her mom that I'd have this girl in bed by eight lol. B/c she was like "look out after her and keep her in line at college....make sure she makes curfew" she was just kidding around so i was like "yea ill have her in bed by 8...."
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haha, that's very risky BUT hilarious.
 
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