Alrite I was at my school's homecoming game and right after there was a dance, started talking to some girls. Two seem really interested in me, one a little more than the other. We hang out for about an hour and both girls #-closed me. yea they asked for mine instead of me asking for theirs. I've been hanging out with texting the one, who seemed more interested in me for a few weeks now. Just now the other girl texted me and said " Hey do you like her, she really likes you and she'd be willing to break up with her bf to date you". What should I do?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I kinda felt like a girl
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pseudo.Sam
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text her saying " I'll have to consider :/ how much is she paying me ? "
VeesBoss
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Content wise, something witty, something clever. Sure. As far as the answer: what do you want?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
rtb227 said:I like the girl, I'm just waiting for her to dump the afc that is her boyfriend, it's just a time game now
Good Luck. Her old bf might find you and put 12 holes in your back like Andrew Bynum.........lol just kidding.
Five To One
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^^good answer.Stblack said:If you like the girl, I would reply to the other girl's text by saying you would ask her out *if* she was single.
Tell her to break up with the boyfriend for you. Date her; have fun and learn from it. Good luck man
WalkingStick
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I like the answers that Stblack and Five to One gave.
No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.