"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I kinda felt like a girl

rtb227

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Alrite I was at my school's homecoming game and right after there was a dance, started talking to some girls. Two seem really interested in me, one a little more than the other. We hang out for about an hour and both girls #-closed me. yea they asked for mine instead of me asking for theirs. I've been hanging out with texting the one, who seemed more interested in me for a few weeks now. Just now the other girl texted me and said " Hey do you like her, she really likes you and she'd be willing to break up with her bf to date you". What should I do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you like the girl, I would reply to the other girl's text by saying you would ask her out *if* she was single.
 

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text her saying " I'll have to consider :/ how much is she paying me ? "
 

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Content wise, something witty, something clever. Sure. As far as the answer: what do you want?
 

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I like the girl, I'm just waiting for her to dump the afc that is her boyfriend, it's just a time game now
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rtb227 said:
I like the girl, I'm just waiting for her to dump the afc that is her boyfriend, it's just a time game now

Good Luck. Her old bf might find you and put 12 holes in your back like Andrew Bynum.........lol just kidding.
 

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Stblack said:
If you like the girl, I would reply to the other girl's text by saying you would ask her out *if* she was single.
^^good answer.

Tell her to break up with the boyfriend for you. Date her; have fun and learn from it. Good luck man
 

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thanks five to one I did text back saying I would if i was single I might tell her she should but I'm going to wait until it comes up in a conversation or something
 

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I like the answers that Stblack and Five to One gave.

No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
 

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like walking stick said, she made the move before me. I'm going for it thanks guys
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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