Alrite I was at my school's homecoming game and right after there was a dance, started talking to some girls. Two seem really interested in me, one a little more than the other. We hang out for about an hour and both girls #-closed me. yea they asked for mine instead of me asking for theirs. I've been hanging out with texting the one, who seemed more interested in me for a few weeks now. Just now the other girl texted me and said " Hey do you like her, she really likes you and she'd be willing to break up with her bf to date you". What should I do?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I kinda felt like a girl
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
pseudo.Sam
Don Juan
text her saying " I'll have to consider :/ how much is she paying me ? "
VeesBoss
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Content wise, something witty, something clever. Sure. As far as the answer: what do you want?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
rtb227 said:I like the girl, I'm just waiting for her to dump the afc that is her boyfriend, it's just a time game now
Good Luck. Her old bf might find you and put 12 holes in your back like Andrew Bynum.........lol just kidding.
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^^good answer.Stblack said:If you like the girl, I would reply to the other girl's text by saying you would ask her out *if* she was single.
Tell her to break up with the boyfriend for you. Date her; have fun and learn from it. Good luck man
WalkingStick
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I like the answers that Stblack and Five to One gave.
No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.