Alrite I was at my school's homecoming game and right after there was a dance, started talking to some girls. Two seem really interested in me, one a little more than the other. We hang out for about an hour and both girls #-closed me. yea they asked for mine instead of me asking for theirs. I've been hanging out with texting the one, who seemed more interested in me for a few weeks now. Just now the other girl texted me and said " Hey do you like her, she really likes you and she'd be willing to break up with her bf to date you". What should I do?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I kinda felt like a girl
- Thread starter rtb227
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
pseudo.Sam
Don Juan
text her saying " I'll have to consider :/ how much is she paying me ? "
VeesBoss
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Content wise, something witty, something clever. Sure. As far as the answer: what do you want?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
rtb227 said:I like the girl, I'm just waiting for her to dump the afc that is her boyfriend, it's just a time game now
Good Luck. Her old bf might find you and put 12 holes in your back like Andrew Bynum.........lol just kidding.
Five To One
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^^good answer.Stblack said:If you like the girl, I would reply to the other girl's text by saying you would ask her out *if* she was single.
Tell her to break up with the boyfriend for you. Date her; have fun and learn from it. Good luck man
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I like the answers that Stblack and Five to One gave.
No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
No need to beat around the bush. You feel like a girl because she made the move before you. No worries, but if you want her, just go for it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.