"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just spoke to Tom Leykis about my "I'll call you in a few days situation"

guywhoneedshelp

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This is continued from the thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1430939

I called him today, figured I'd get some good advice. He basically told me that if a girl says she needs some time, she is asking for time to bang other guys and not feel guilty about it. I really think it's over, she hasn't called yet, and even if she calls, I'm not gonna be as happy as I would if she called a couple days ago. I'm tired of feeling like I'm in between being with the girl and being alone, so I think I'm gonna try to move on.

But we'll see, when she calls, if she calls, we may be able to work something out. But if she's even touched another guy, **** it. Besides, I'm going out tomorrow night and I will probably be spittin' some game...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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inerte

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I'm in between being with the girl and being alone
Alone? Alone??? Why do you think it's either her or loliness? Love of your life, you say?

She doesn't think so.

So that means you need to move on. Simple, true love is 1 + 1 = 2. :rockon:

Keep searching. You're the hunter.

Peace.
 
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