"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I just spoke to Tom Leykis about my "I'll call you in a few days situation"

guywhoneedshelp

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This is continued from the thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1430939

I called him today, figured I'd get some good advice. He basically told me that if a girl says she needs some time, she is asking for time to bang other guys and not feel guilty about it. I really think it's over, she hasn't called yet, and even if she calls, I'm not gonna be as happy as I would if she called a couple days ago. I'm tired of feeling like I'm in between being with the girl and being alone, so I think I'm gonna try to move on.

But we'll see, when she calls, if she calls, we may be able to work something out. But if she's even touched another guy, **** it. Besides, I'm going out tomorrow night and I will probably be spittin' some game...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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inerte

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I'm in between being with the girl and being alone
Alone? Alone??? Why do you think it's either her or loliness? Love of your life, you say?

She doesn't think so.

So that means you need to move on. Simple, true love is 1 + 1 = 2. :rockon:

Keep searching. You're the hunter.

Peace.
 
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