"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just spoke to Tom Leykis about my "I'll call you in a few days situation"

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This is continued from the thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1430939

I called him today, figured I'd get some good advice. He basically told me that if a girl says she needs some time, she is asking for time to bang other guys and not feel guilty about it. I really think it's over, she hasn't called yet, and even if she calls, I'm not gonna be as happy as I would if she called a couple days ago. I'm tired of feeling like I'm in between being with the girl and being alone, so I think I'm gonna try to move on.

But we'll see, when she calls, if she calls, we may be able to work something out. But if she's even touched another guy, **** it. Besides, I'm going out tomorrow night and I will probably be spittin' some game...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I'm in between being with the girl and being alone
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Alone? Alone??? Why do you think it's either her or loliness? Love of your life, you say?

She doesn't think so.

So that means you need to move on. Simple, true love is 1 + 1 = 2. :rockon:

Keep searching. You're the hunter.

Peace.
 
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