"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just shot myself in the foot

manfrombelow

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You guys can sex text a chick all day & night but eventually it's all meaningless if you can't penetrate her in the real life.

Texting is for kids. Adults don't text, they bang.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lordeterra

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You guys can sex text a chick all day & night but eventually it's all meaningless if you can't penetrate her in the real life.

Texting is for kids. Adults don't text, they bang.
I Fock her senseless 5x a week bro. I sext her when I’m. Ord
 

deBrito

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It could definitely be possible that you're the only guy she's f-ing, but all I'm saying is man don't act like a friend with her. It's something you'll learn a lesson from sooner or later if you don't already know this. If you do, I have no idea why you're texting her on some casual stuff like this.

and don't put other dudes on a pedestal.. whats all this calling another man chad stuff? that's super beta.
I've learned this the hard way.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I’m. Going to do me if she leaves idc o had my fun for 6 months doing everything and anything with her
OP, it's clear this thread was started as a semi-brag about you being able to have your way with this chick. She is obviously your FWB, but from the texting, it is also clear you've started to treat her more than the FWB you claim. Everyone's response here has been constructive criticism solely for the purpose of helping you. However, you choosing to ignore the advice given indicates getting advice was never the intent when you posted. Not sure why you get defensive and try to show how you're the Man because this slvt let's you do anything you want to her. But then you get butt hurt and tell her to "suck a ****" and ignore her for 5 days because she didn't text you for a little bit because she was asleep. As others have stated, there are some glaring holes with your game. Remember, anyone can get at least one slvt to do what they want. But the ultimate goal of this forum is to help with a person's mindset and growth as a man, in order to improve their overall game with all women and life in general. You started this post, yet refuse to accept the advice when it's given. Either you're trolling and strictly wanted an outlet to brag about this slvt, or you haven't matured enough to understand the advice given. But bottom line, if she truly is a FWB, stop texting her like she's your LTR.
 

Lordeterra

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OP, it's clear this thread was started as a semi-brag about you being able to have your way with this chick. She is obviously your FWB, but from the texting, it is also clear you've started to treat her more than the FWB you claim. Everyone's response here has been constructive criticism solely for the purpose of helping you. However, you choosing to ignore the advice given indicates getting advice was never the intent when you posted. Not sure why you get defensive and try to show how you're the Man because this slvt let's you do anything you want to her. But then you get butt hurt and tell her to "suck a ****" and ignore her for 5 days because she didn't text you for a little bit because she was asleep. As others have stated, there are some glaring holes with your game. Remember, anyone can get at least one slvt to do what they want. But the ultimate goal of this forum is to help with a person's mindset and growth as a man, in order to improve their overall game with all women and life in general. You started this post, yet refuse to accept the advice when it's given. Either you're trolling and strictly wanted an outlet to brag about this slvt, or you haven't matured enough to understand the advice given. But bottom line, if she truly is a FWB, stop texting her like she's your LTR.
Absolutely. Idk she’s being weird **** it shouldn’t have posted here. I just want a harem of 8 and 9s.
 

Lordeterra

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She wants to be exclusive and that’s the last thing I wabt but I also don’t want to lose this PCs at what do
 
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