"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I just learned one of if not the most important thing.

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619joe

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I was at work (catering) and had good vibes from these two girls and it seemed as if they were interested and since I was busy couldnt talk with them.Alright I had a chance or two but it was very slight.I kept telling myself "just wait you will get a better chance later" since its a wedding.Also these two seemed pretty bored out of their mind.

Well guess what?

THERE WAS NO GREATER OPPORTUNITY!

After I had gone on my break not even close to end of the wedding,they had gone.Yep Im not pissed obviously since I dont even know how much they liked me but just knowing that I should have just gone for it instead of waiting just killlllllllllllllllllllls me inside.

So bottom line,dont be an idiot like me and wait for something better to come along. Because something better might come if you wait (and it will happen to the GIRLS instead of YOU). Sometimes you may get lucky like I have before but I guess what Im trying to say is create the opportunity instead of trying your luck.

Lol haha please someone share their stories im sure someone here has made this mistake like I have
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i know what you mean, and I know how you feel, and it sucks so bad. If anything good came from this is that the next time an opportunity arises, you seize that moment. Live today and die tomorrow.
 
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Haha yeah that's what tends to happen. The most important thing is that you LEARN from your mistake - next time you're in that sort of situation remember how badly you regretted not approaching on this occasion!
 
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Yeah welcome to the last six years of my life!

Any approach opportunity that doesn't involve jumping through a plane of glass or swinging from an electric cable, is a A-1-100% perfect opportunity.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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