"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just learned one of if not the most important thing.

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619joe

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I was at work (catering) and had good vibes from these two girls and it seemed as if they were interested and since I was busy couldnt talk with them.Alright I had a chance or two but it was very slight.I kept telling myself "just wait you will get a better chance later" since its a wedding.Also these two seemed pretty bored out of their mind.

Well guess what?

THERE WAS NO GREATER OPPORTUNITY!

After I had gone on my break not even close to end of the wedding,they had gone.Yep Im not pissed obviously since I dont even know how much they liked me but just knowing that I should have just gone for it instead of waiting just killlllllllllllllllllllls me inside.

So bottom line,dont be an idiot like me and wait for something better to come along. Because something better might come if you wait (and it will happen to the GIRLS instead of YOU). Sometimes you may get lucky like I have before but I guess what Im trying to say is create the opportunity instead of trying your luck.

Lol haha please someone share their stories im sure someone here has made this mistake like I have
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i know what you mean, and I know how you feel, and it sucks so bad. If anything good came from this is that the next time an opportunity arises, you seize that moment. Live today and die tomorrow.
 
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Haha yeah that's what tends to happen. The most important thing is that you LEARN from your mistake - next time you're in that sort of situation remember how badly you regretted not approaching on this occasion!
 
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Yeah welcome to the last six years of my life!

Any approach opportunity that doesn't involve jumping through a plane of glass or swinging from an electric cable, is a A-1-100% perfect opportunity.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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