I just learned one of if not the most important thing.

[619joe]

I was at work (catering) and had good vibes from these two girls and it seemed as if they were interested and since I was busy couldnt talk with them.Alright I had a chance or two but it was very slight.I kept telling myself "just wait you will get a better chance later" since its a wedding.Also these two seemed pretty bored out of their mind.

Well guess what?

THERE WAS NO GREATER OPPORTUNITY!

After I had gone on my break not even close to end of the wedding,they had gone.Yep Im not pissed obviously since I dont even know how much they liked me but just knowing that I should have just gone for it instead of waiting just killlllllllllllllllllllls me inside.

So bottom line,dont be an idiot like me and wait for something better to come along. Because something better might come if you wait (and it will happen to the GIRLS instead of YOU). Sometimes you may get lucky like I have before but I guess what Im trying to say is create the opportunity instead of trying your luck.

Lol haha please someone share their stories im sure someone here has made this mistake like I have

 

[mxylplk]

i know what you mean, and I know how you feel, and it sucks so bad. If anything good came from this is that the next time an opportunity arises, you seize that moment. Live today and die tomorrow.

 

[DrD77]

done it a million times.

 

[Mr. Bojangles]

Haha yeah that's what tends to happen. The most important thing is that you LEARN from your mistake - next time you're in that sort of situation remember how badly you regretted not approaching on this occasion!

 

[Technical1]

Yeah welcome to the last six years of my life!

Any approach opportunity that doesn't involve jumping through a plane of glass or swinging from an electric cable, is a A-1-100% perfect opportunity.