"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i just had a really good idea

barra088

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i just got a new cell phone and realized how good of a crutch cell phones are when it comes to getting numbers. if you're ever in a conversation with any remotely hot girl, at some point bring up your cell phone. say something like:

"yeah, me and my friend are havin a contest to see who can fill up the phonebook on their cell phone first,and the winner gets 5 bucks. so can i get your number cuz i really wanna win 5 bucks"

or somthin like that. odds are shell give it to you. i think its a good idea maybe itll help some people out
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by barra088
i just got a new cell phone and realized how good of a crutch cell phones are when it comes to getting numbers. if you're ever in a conversation with any remotely hot girl, at some point bring up your cell phone. say something like:

"yeah, me and my friend are havin a contest to see who can fill up the phonebook on their cell phone first,and the winner gets 5 bucks. so can i get your number cuz i really wanna win 5 bucks"

or somthin like that. odds are shell give it to you. i think its a good idea maybe itll help some people out
Or you could not be a b*tch about getting her number.
 

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Are you serious? 5 bucks? Lame


How about this. Chat the girl up for awhile, figure a few things out about her. Pull out your cell, look at the clock. Then look at her and say, "Hey babe, sorry but its almost (Insert time here) and I'm supposed to meet up with my friend and head to this party. But before I leave, give me your number and we'll hang out sometime."
 

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Re: Re: i just had a really good idea

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Or you could not be a b*tch about getting her number.
ROFL thats great...yeah don't be a little gay fag about it..act like a man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's smart.

But then again you could just do it the normal way.
 

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why not say, whats your number?

Honestly, this is the only way to find out if she is remotley interested. 9 times out of 10 a girl will give you the number if youve been talking to her for at least 5 mins.
 
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