"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i just had a really good idea

barra088

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i just got a new cell phone and realized how good of a crutch cell phones are when it comes to getting numbers. if you're ever in a conversation with any remotely hot girl, at some point bring up your cell phone. say something like:

"yeah, me and my friend are havin a contest to see who can fill up the phonebook on their cell phone first,and the winner gets 5 bucks. so can i get your number cuz i really wanna win 5 bucks"

or somthin like that. odds are shell give it to you. i think its a good idea maybe itll help some people out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by barra088
i just got a new cell phone and realized how good of a crutch cell phones are when it comes to getting numbers. if you're ever in a conversation with any remotely hot girl, at some point bring up your cell phone. say something like:

"yeah, me and my friend are havin a contest to see who can fill up the phonebook on their cell phone first,and the winner gets 5 bucks. so can i get your number cuz i really wanna win 5 bucks"

or somthin like that. odds are shell give it to you. i think its a good idea maybe itll help some people out
Or you could not be a b*tch about getting her number.
 

AdrenalynJunkee

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Are you serious? 5 bucks? Lame


How about this. Chat the girl up for awhile, figure a few things out about her. Pull out your cell, look at the clock. Then look at her and say, "Hey babe, sorry but its almost (Insert time here) and I'm supposed to meet up with my friend and head to this party. But before I leave, give me your number and we'll hang out sometime."
 

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Re: Re: i just had a really good idea

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Or you could not be a b*tch about getting her number.
ROFL thats great...yeah don't be a little gay fag about it..act like a man
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's smart.

But then again you could just do it the normal way.
 

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why not say, whats your number?

Honestly, this is the only way to find out if she is remotley interested. 9 times out of 10 a girl will give you the number if youve been talking to her for at least 5 mins.
 
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