"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i just got a new cell phone and realized how good of a crutch cell phones are when it comes to getting numbers. if you're ever in a conversation with any remotely hot girl, at some point bring up your cell phone. say something like:

"yeah, me and my friend are havin a contest to see who can fill up the phonebook on their cell phone first,and the winner gets 5 bucks. so can i get your number cuz i really wanna win 5 bucks"

or somthin like that. odds are shell give it to you. i think its a good idea maybe itll help some people out
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by barra088
i just got a new cell phone and realized how good of a crutch cell phones are when it comes to getting numbers. if you're ever in a conversation with any remotely hot girl, at some point bring up your cell phone. say something like:

"yeah, me and my friend are havin a contest to see who can fill up the phonebook on their cell phone first,and the winner gets 5 bucks. so can i get your number cuz i really wanna win 5 bucks"

or somthin like that. odds are shell give it to you. i think its a good idea maybe itll help some people out
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Or you could not be a b*tch about getting her number.
 
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Are you serious? 5 bucks? Lame


How about this. Chat the girl up for awhile, figure a few things out about her. Pull out your cell, look at the clock. Then look at her and say, "Hey babe, sorry but its almost (Insert time here) and I'm supposed to meet up with my friend and head to this party. But before I leave, give me your number and we'll hang out sometime."
 
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Re: Re: i just had a really good idea

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Or you could not be a b*tch about getting her number.
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ROFL thats great...yeah don't be a little gay fag about it..act like a man
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's smart.

But then again you could just do it the normal way.
 
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why not say, whats your number?

Honestly, this is the only way to find out if she is remotley interested. 9 times out of 10 a girl will give you the number if youve been talking to her for at least 5 mins.
 
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