"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I just cheated, what do I do?

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't think this post is a lie but, if it is oh well...

Anyways, I see this kind of sh!t all the time.

1. Don't tell your wife or friend...
2. Hope the girl you fvcked doesn't say anything to her boyfriend or lets her loose lips fly out to other people you know.

Good Luck!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Iggy gave the best advice. She didn't add that wierd thing some of the guys are adding with the moral crap. She just said it plain and simple. Don't tell and get a divorce and find yourself.





I personally don't believe a man should cheat in a marriage either. If your married then your out the game. But, I would never condem someone on a forum like this for doing it.

Who am I to cast the first stone of condemnation?
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I don't think this post is a lie but, if it is oh well...

Anyways, I see this kind of sh!t all the time.

1. Don't tell your wife or friend...
2. Hope the girl you fvcked doesn't say anything to her boyfriend or lets her loose lips fly out to other people you know.

Good Luck!
Ok, I know why some of you think the post is a lie and I will tell you it defintiley is not, I re-read what I wrote and it looks like what some poor S.O.B. would write to Dr. Phil. Oops, my bad. Anyways, I greatly appreciate the input. Thanks.
 

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PRMoon said:
This post seems awfuly fishy...I'm not sure if this is a real question or not...

I'm callin for a vote!

Who says this thread is legit or not?


Amen bro.

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Snoop Doggy Dogg paged that must mean more hos.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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tosh said:
Don't tell anyone. Don't ever cheat again. If you do, you're a douchebag.
LOL... most humans cheat and get cheated on so get over it and yourself... cause most likely your life has cheated and will never tell you....

Monogamy and dedication are concepts that dont apply to modern relationships, its about money now.
 

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KontrollerX said:
What do you do?

Get out of this marriage and stop living a lie and pretending you are in love with this woman.

You may of been once but you clearly aren't anymore.

You already fvcked two other people and you're probably not going to stop hooking up with randoms so why keep wasting your wife's time or yours in this farce of a marriage?
I believe that the woman needs to know, so she can get out of the marriage. Who cares what he wants. He's a man of no integrity.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonGorgon said:
LOL... she cheated too so what now.
I didn't see where he said she cheated.
 

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tick37 said:
I believe that the woman needs to know, so she can get out of the marriage. Who cares what he wants. He's a man of no integrity.
I think him coming clean proves he's at least STRIVING to be a man of integrity. it takes balls to come clean to a friend and your wife knowing the stakes, most guys would just pvssy out and rationalize why cheating is ok over and over until they start to believe it and feel better

but you're definately right about her needing to know
 
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