"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just cheated, what do I do?

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I don't think this post is a lie but, if it is oh well...

Anyways, I see this kind of sh!t all the time.

1. Don't tell your wife or friend...
2. Hope the girl you fvcked doesn't say anything to her boyfriend or lets her loose lips fly out to other people you know.

Good Luck!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Iggy gave the best advice. She didn't add that wierd thing some of the guys are adding with the moral crap. She just said it plain and simple. Don't tell and get a divorce and find yourself.





I personally don't believe a man should cheat in a marriage either. If your married then your out the game. But, I would never condem someone on a forum like this for doing it.

Who am I to cast the first stone of condemnation?
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I don't think this post is a lie but, if it is oh well...

Anyways, I see this kind of sh!t all the time.

1. Don't tell your wife or friend...
2. Hope the girl you fvcked doesn't say anything to her boyfriend or lets her loose lips fly out to other people you know.

Good Luck!
Ok, I know why some of you think the post is a lie and I will tell you it defintiley is not, I re-read what I wrote and it looks like what some poor S.O.B. would write to Dr. Phil. Oops, my bad. Anyways, I greatly appreciate the input. Thanks.
 

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PRMoon said:
This post seems awfuly fishy...I'm not sure if this is a real question or not...

I'm callin for a vote!

Who says this thread is legit or not?


Amen bro.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tosh said:
Don't tell anyone. Don't ever cheat again. If you do, you're a douchebag.
LOL... most humans cheat and get cheated on so get over it and yourself... cause most likely your life has cheated and will never tell you....

Monogamy and dedication are concepts that dont apply to modern relationships, its about money now.
 

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KontrollerX said:
What do you do?

Get out of this marriage and stop living a lie and pretending you are in love with this woman.

You may of been once but you clearly aren't anymore.

You already fvcked two other people and you're probably not going to stop hooking up with randoms so why keep wasting your wife's time or yours in this farce of a marriage?
I believe that the woman needs to know, so she can get out of the marriage. Who cares what he wants. He's a man of no integrity.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGorgon said:
LOL... she cheated too so what now.
I didn't see where he said she cheated.
 

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tick37 said:
I believe that the woman needs to know, so she can get out of the marriage. Who cares what he wants. He's a man of no integrity.
I think him coming clean proves he's at least STRIVING to be a man of integrity. it takes balls to come clean to a friend and your wife knowing the stakes, most guys would just pvssy out and rationalize why cheating is ok over and over until they start to believe it and feel better

but you're definately right about her needing to know
 
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