"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just changed my friendship forever...

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a guy up above made a good comment, in that women will typically take it to that level if they feel COMFORTABLE doing so.

If she had no prior interest in having you kiss her, it won't be able to happen quick enough. Unless some part of her wants you to kiss her, you're gonna have to build up that want.

I don't have a great amount of experience under my belt, but with the little experience that I do have. If you set the right tone, they'll be receptive to it.

and this guy does deserve commendation for having the ballz to get up and take action.

As for why she was thinking he was gonna say he was gay, it might have to do with this. That she doesn't want to have him get all stupid and weird by having feelings or wanting a relationship that SHE doesn't want. So being gay would be fine for her because then there wouldn't be risk that he would start getting weird around her and ruin the friendship.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ha she called me 5 mins before work started today. she knows i work on fridays at a certain time but when she called she was like what are you up to? i said i was going to work and she was like "oh i totally forgot about you having to work. I just woke up from my nap" she wanted to know if i wanted to go to dinner with her and some friends. now whether or not this is true i find it pretty damn funny at the timing.

then about 10 mins ago her friend calls me from her phone and leaves me a voice message they are both drunk i am sure of that.
 
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