"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just changed my friendship forever...

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a guy up above made a good comment, in that women will typically take it to that level if they feel COMFORTABLE doing so.

If she had no prior interest in having you kiss her, it won't be able to happen quick enough. Unless some part of her wants you to kiss her, you're gonna have to build up that want.

I don't have a great amount of experience under my belt, but with the little experience that I do have. If you set the right tone, they'll be receptive to it.

and this guy does deserve commendation for having the ballz to get up and take action.

As for why she was thinking he was gonna say he was gay, it might have to do with this. That she doesn't want to have him get all stupid and weird by having feelings or wanting a relationship that SHE doesn't want. So being gay would be fine for her because then there wouldn't be risk that he would start getting weird around her and ruin the friendship.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ha she called me 5 mins before work started today. she knows i work on fridays at a certain time but when she called she was like what are you up to? i said i was going to work and she was like "oh i totally forgot about you having to work. I just woke up from my nap" she wanted to know if i wanted to go to dinner with her and some friends. now whether or not this is true i find it pretty damn funny at the timing.

then about 10 mins ago her friend calls me from her phone and leaves me a voice message they are both drunk i am sure of that.
 
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